What Your Love Language

 According to Chapman, the five ways to express and experience love called "love languages" are



Word of Affirmation 

Words of affirmation are any spoken or written words that confirm support, uplift, and empathize with another person in a positive manner. Words of affirmation is one of the five love languages, which are just specific ways of giving and receiving love in a relationship, your partner will especially appreciate compliments, sincere thanks, handwritten notes, and what you mean to others. The goal is to show your partner how much they mean to you and how important they are to you.

Quality Time

Sometimes shortened to Quality Time, it is an informal reference to the time that is spent with close family members, partners or friends and that is in some way important, special, productive or profitable for one or all of those involved. Attention to the person or thing in question. It can also refer to the time you spend on a favorite activity. Relationship counselor Gary Chapman suggests that Quality Time is one of five "languages" used (roughly, preferably by a particular person) to express love and to express their feelings and emotions.


Gift Giving 

Every year for Christmas, birthdays, anniversaries and special occasions, we carefully select gifts and offer them to our loved ones. It's something we naturally do, and most of us don't think about the deeper implications. But the gift we choose and how we present it. It says a lot about us, our relationships and the complex social structures within our community. Behind every present perfect there are social, psychological and emotional currents.


Acts of Service

So what do official acts mean in a relationship? Acts of service as the language of love mean that your partner is showing love by doing things that will help you. This may seem like you're preparing dinner for yourself, doing some housework you hate, or helping yourself with a household project. They often perform these official acts in silence, without expecting recognition or thanks. When partners show love through service, they show that they understand your needs and want to help
you. Your partner prefers to receive love through service and then show your affection by doing some housework he hates, filling his car with gas, cooking his favorite food, or making him a cup of coffee in the morning.

Physical Touch

Physical touch is sensual closeness or touch. It is an action or reaction, an expression of feelings (including close friendship, platonic love, romantic love, or sexual attraction) between people. Examples of physical intimacy include a person's personal space, holding hands, hugging, kissing, caressing, and sexual activity. [1] Physical intimacy can often convey the real meaning or intent of
interaction in ways that the accompanying speech simply cannot. Physical intimacy can be exchanged between anyone, but since it is often used to communicate positive and intimate feelings, it is more common in people. who have a pre-existing relationship, be it family, platonic or romantic, with romantic relationships that
have greater physical intimacy. correlates with general relationship and partner satisfaction


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