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  According to Chapman, the five ways to express and experience  love  called "love languages" are words of affirmation quality time giving gifts acts of service physical touch Word of Affirmation   Words of affirmation are any spoken or written words that confirm support, uplift, and empathize with another person in a positive manner. Words of affirmation is one of the five love languages, which are just specific ways of giving and receiving love in a relationship,  your partner will especially appreciate compliments, sinc ere thanks, handwritten notes, and what y ou mean to others. The goal is to show your partner how much they mean to you and how i m portant t h ey are to you . Quality Time Sometimes shortened to Quality Time, it is an informal reference to the time that is spent with close family members, partners or friends and that is in some way important, special, productive or profitable for one or all of those involved. Attention ...

Affection and love in the family is quite nature and must to have elements to promote the harmony and positive growth of the family. It is the deep affection that makes parents inclined to the sacrifices of growing up kids, perform household activities and meet the financial requirements. If the affection factor is absent no one would have lived dedicatedly for the family. The affection obligates parents to take pain of looking after the kids and similarly, kids to love and obey the parents. Constantly nurturing the affection in the family is essential to keep the bond of love between the members of the family strong. It is the unmatched affection that creates the belongingness in the family life. The affection expressed within the family is not benevolence but a commitment. Verbal expressions of affection, quality time spend with the family, gifts, mutual services, affectionate touch etc… are the most advised modes of nurturing the affection in the family between the famil...

There is a difference between speaking to your mountain and speaking about your mountain. Speaking about your mountain will magnify the problem in your mind. The problem will begin to look bigger and bigger in your sight. But speaking to your mountain keeps things in proper perspective. When you put God’s Word in your mouth, magnifying the Answer above all else, speaking to the mountain will cause it to move (Mark 11:23–24)! This week: Take a day and keep track of how many times you speak about the problem you’re facing. Go to God’s Word—the Bible—and find out what it says about the problem. Begin to replace your words about the situation with God’s Word on the matter. Each time you begin to speak about the problem, remind yourself to speak to it, telling it to change and conform to what the Word says!

Affection and love in the family is quite nature and must to have elements to promote the harmony and positive growth of the family. It is the deep affection that makes parents inclined to the sacrifices of growing up kids, perform household activities and meet the financial requirements. If the affection factor is absent no one would have lived dedicatedly for the family. The affection obligates parents to take pain of looking after the kids and similarly, kids to love and obey the parents. Constantly nurturing the affection in the family is essential to keep the bond of love between the members of the family strong. It is the unmatched affection that creates the belongingness in the family life. The affection expressed within the family is not benevolence but a commitment. Verbal expressions of affection, quality time spend with the family, gifts, mutual services, affectionate touch etc... are the most advised modes of nurturing the affection in the family between the family...

*Don't complicate life. We won't be here forever. Once this day is over, it's gone forever. Your time is too valuable to waste on nonsense.* *No matter what knocks you down in life, get back up and keep going.* *Never give up. Great blessings are a result of great perseverance.* *Talking about our problems is our greatest addiction. Break the habit.* *Talk about your joys.* *Good things come to those who believe, better things come to those who are patient, and the best things come to those who don't give up.* *Do not pray for an easy life; pray for the strength to endure a difficult one.* *Disappointments were not meant to destroy you. They were meant to strengthen you & give you fortitude to accomplish your God-given destiny.* *We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of getting something we don't have, but of appreciating what we do have.* *Your child will follow your example, not your advice.* *One day, you'll be j...

I want to fly,  In the sky,   With the wings   Of love.   With that wing,   I shall swing,   In the sky,   Like a dove.   It is such a wing That comes to all,   In broader sense And sometimes small. The wing is a wand That has magic,   If misunderstood It would be tragic. It is love That brings emancipation,   An invisible thread   Of all relation.   On this wing   Fly everyone,   Flied not once There is none. If you want   To see the heaven,   Fall in love   That God has given. Let me fly On this wing,   Towards heaven With full swing.

A GOOD WOMAN, MAKES A GOOD WIFE AND A GOOD WIFE BECOMES A GOOD MOTHER. A GOOD MOTHER GIVE BIRTH TO A GOOD CHILD. IF YOU WANT TO BE ONE EMULATE THESE STEPS BELLOW 1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect. 2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other's keeper. 3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home. 4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish. 5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband. 6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties. 7). Never assign anyone to give attention ...

╔════  🚨   💎   🚨 ════╗ 🔹Don’t shout at your        wife when you are        talking. It really        hurts her.        *Proverbs 15:1*   🔹Do not speak evil        of her to anyone.        Your wife will become        who you call her.       *Gen. 2:19*   🔹Do not share her love       or affection with another       woman.       It is called Adultery.       *Matt. 5:28*   🔹Never compare your        wife to another woman.        If the other woman was        good for you, God would        have given her to you.       *2 Cor. 10:12*   🔹Be gentle and        accommodat...

How well do you manage your time? If you're like many people, your answer may not be completely positive! Perhaps you feel overloaded, and you often have to work late to hit your deadlines. Or maybe your days seem to go from one crisis to another, and this is stressful and demoralizing.  Many of us know that we could be managing our time more effectively; but it can be difficult to identify the mistakes that we're making, and to know how we could improve. When we do manage our time well, however, we're exceptionally productive at work, and our stress levels drop. We can devote time to the interesting, high-reward projects that can make a real difference to a career. In short, we're happier!  In this article, we're looking at ten of the most common time management mistakes, as well as identifying strategies and tips that you can use to overcome them.  These 6 mistakes are:  Mistake #1. Failing to Keep a To-Do List Do you ever have that nagging feeling tha...

What do Hilary Lunke, Ben Curtis, Annika Sorenstam, Jim Furyk and Tiger Woods have in common?  ''They all believe they can win''.  To play at your best you must believe in yourself. You must believe in your body's ability to perform. You must believe that you can get better. Self-doubt means that you question your competence to hit the ball where you want it to go. As you begin to doubt, you tell your body how to swing the club, which then becomes more difficult, mechanical and forced. Anxiety begins when you first doubt your ability. There is no doubt in sinking a 1-inch putt. When you feel the pressure and miss a 4-footer to win, you create a self-fulfilling prophesy that you can't sink 4-footers. These world-class champions know that no matter how much pressure there is to win a major, they feel less anxiety when they do not doubt that they can win. They trust their competence even when they are surrounded by doubting voices. Playing to his p...

  Fathers, be good to your daughters Daughters will love like you do ~ “Daughters,” by John Mayer We hear a lot about the importance of male role models in a boy’s life. It is indeed important. But what’s often missing from the conversation is the importance of fathers in a daughter’s life as well. Children really do learn what they live. Not having the perspective of older people, they consider whatever their family is like as their “normal.” From infancy, girls draw conclusions about what men are like from the men in their life. If there is a father (or a male in her life who takes a father role), that man becomes her guidepost for what to expect of men and what to expect of men’s attitude toward women. His relationship to her mother or his significant other is her template for what her relationship with a man will be when she grows up. 1 . Dad's influence their daughter's self-image . First and foremost, dads should always tell their daughters how ...

A remarkable amount of time, effort, and money has been devoted to the study of leadership. Despite all this research, there is little agreement about exactly what leadership is. Still, people know effective leadership when they see it. And while great leaders may sometimes be born that way, there are certain traits that great leaders share in common that anyone can practice and adopt to become more effective. What qualities are those? Well, to be a highly effective leader, you must  ...  ... Inspire Action . Try to paint a vision of the future that inspires your people to do whatever it takes to get there. The best leaders also clear away the organizational roadblocks that constrain employees’ natural creativity and initiative, unleashing a tremendous amount of energy in the process.   ... Be Optimistic . We all want to work with and for people who lift us up into the clouds instead of dragging us down into the mud. Make sure to seek out the p...

Do not dwell on the past. Your history cannot be erased, but your future has yet to be written, so make the most of what is going to happen insteadof worrying about what you cannot change.

I have this small story to tell, anytime I reminisce on it my heart is touched, when I think is Susannah Wesley the mother of John and Charles Wesley whose soul were saved by there mother for Jesus Christ in their early age become an Evangelist, bringing about a revival of standard bible in England to bring about Methodist Church which is now all over the world, and through all this many souls have been saved and from generation to generation Methodist Church with the bible standard that John did will forever keep saving soul. In my imagination I always thinks what if Susannah didn't lead them to Christ? Would there have been saved John and Charles? What if Susannah has not lead her children to Christ would there have been Methodist Church? Two soul were saved in a small town, but today millions have received salvation generations have gotten Christ to there life, A SAVED SOUL IS SAVED GENERATION Was going through my Bible students form the book of 2nd Timothy 1: 5 its tel...

Great are You Lord Before the start of time to when time will be no more Great are You Lord. Before the risen of the sun to its setting Great are You Lord. Before the creation of this World to when it will cease to exist Great are You Lord. Before man is born even till after he dies Great are You Lord. Great are You Lord. He who made the woman womb to conceive Great are You Lord. He who made the earth to float in the air by Gravitational law Great are You Lord. He who is great than the greatest Great are You Lord. He who will judge the earth with righteousness Great are You Lord. Great are You Lord. By your words the heart was formed Great are You Lord. By the sound of Your voice the sea Roar Great are You Lord. By Your mighty hand you brought Israel out of Egypt Great are You Lord. By Your breath man be come living thing Great are You Lord.

                        Do you know? Your BIRTH came through Others Your NAME was given by Others Your were EDUCATED by Others Your INCOME indirectly comes through Others Your RESPECT is given by Others Your first BATH was given by Others Your last BATH will be done by Others Your FUNERAL service will be organised by Others and Your PROPERTIES and BELONGINGS will later be inherited by Others Hmm..... I still wonder why some of us let our EGO, our TIME, our CAREER, our MONEY and our BELIEF undermine the worth of Others in our lives, when indeed all our making depends on Others. It's high time we all simplify, re-adjust and modify OUR LIVES to love one another and live peacefully with Others, because at one point or the Other we will need each Other.

When someone comes and tells you, I can't sleep without you, I love you the way you are and I can put up with your good and bad attitude. Before you commit your heart please, GIVE IT TIME. When You just met someone today and feel like marrying him/her tomorrow, before you do remember you need to GIVE IT TIME. When you visit your uncle and you will stay there for 2 months holiday, don't be carried away that they serve you your preferred food and give you hot water to bath during your first two days and you start making arrangement to relocate to their house, GIVE IT TIME. When a brother visits you and wakes you up by his shouting of prayer from 12 am to 6 am, please don't shut him down, first GIVE IT TIME. When someone joins your fellowship in the first year and he is in every group/wing, please don't rush and make him a leader rather GIVE IT TIME. When you enter a new environment and everybody worships you and eat your mess don't be carried away just GI...

.................................................... A man is born today, Tomorrow he is dead. ........................................................ A man lives in a mansion today, Tomorrow he lives underground. ...................................................... A man drives a car today, Tomorrow an ambulance drives him. .................................................... A man reads biology today, Tomorrow a biography is being read of him. ....................................................... A man eats whatever he wants today, Tomorrow he becomes food for the maggots. ...................................................... A man is always early for work today, Tomorrow he is termed late Mr/Mrs. ....................................................... A man is seen resting in his house today, Tomorrow he is resting in a coffin. And they say "Rest In Peace"! ...................................................... A man eats all k...

1. ON EARNING: Never depend on single income. Make investment to create a second chance. 2. ON SPENDING: If you buy things you do not need, soon you will have to sell things you need. 3. ON SAVINGS: Do not save what is left after spending, but spend what is left after saving. 4. ON TAKING RISK: Never test the depth of a river with both feet. 5. ON INVESTMENT: Do not put all eggs in one basket. 6. ON EXPECTATIONS: Honesty is a very expensive gift. Do not expect it from cheap people. 7. IF YOU are depressed, you are living in the past. If you are anxious, you are living in the future. If you are at peace, you are living in the present. Past is a waste paper. Present is a newspaper and future is a question paper. 8. WHEN bad things happen in your life you have three choices. You can either let it define you, let it destroy you or you can let it strengthen you. 9. EMPTY pockets teach you a million things in life but full pockets spoil you in a million ways. 10. O...